Fri · Aug 7$320
New York, NY
Couples + Select Singles
A candlelit Valentine's ritual. Opening ceremony, tantric warm-up, full-exchange lounge.
A Private Collective · LA · NYC · SF
Holy Fck
Swingers. Sacred Sex. Real Connection.
Private parties. Intentional play. Sacred & filthy.
Created by Sex Therapist Dr. Kali DuBois, PhD
For consenting adults 21+ only
↓ Enter the Temple
Welcome
A word from Holy Fck
The Doctrine
Temple by candlelight. Afterparty by design. Nothing profane about wanting. Nothing profane about more.
Sacred Heat
Ritual openings, breathwork, intentional touch. Play with reverence, not restraint.
Vetted Circle
Every member is reviewed. Every party is hosted. Every room is consent-forward.
Filthy Elegance
Cinematic venues. Impeccable production. The taboo, presented like couture.
03 · Gatherings
Holy Fck Gatherings
Private swingers parties with a sacred sex edge. High-vibe, high-heat, fully consent-focused.
Sat · Aug 8$380
Los Angeles, CA
Ritual Play
Guided sacred sex circle in a private Laurel Canyon estate. Small, intentional, unforgettable.
Sat · Aug 15$340
San Francisco, CA
Full Exchange
A converted Mission District loft. Cinematic lighting, hedonist energy with a sacred spine.
Members Only
Unlock the full party calendar
Members see every gathering in Los Angeles, New York, and San Francisco — plus the private one-nights we don't advertise.
Become a MemberRitual · Play · Devotion
A body is an altar. A touch is a prayer.
We host the parties we always wanted to be invited to. Small rooms. Big presence. Music that moves through you. Consent as choreography. Aftercare as sacrament.
Membership
Cross the threshold.
One key unlocks every party, every profile, every private room. No tiers. No games.
Join Holy FckWhispers
What the circle is saying.
I've been to a lot of parties. Nothing has ever felt this held, this hot, and this human — all at once.
It cracked something open in our marriage. We came for the mystique and stayed for the depth.
Sacred and filthy, exactly as promised. Dr. Kali built the room I didn't know I was praying for.
Answers
The obvious questions.
What is Holy Fck?+
A private, invite-forward collective for adults who take sex seriously and pleasure sacredly. Part swingers circle, part sacred sexuality container, fully consent-forward.
How do the parties work?+
Each gathering has a stated container — Couples, Couples + Select Singles, Full Exchange, or Ritual Play. Members register in advance, review the house rules, and are onboarded by a host before doors open. Every party opens with a consent circle.
How does membership work?+
One monthly or annual fee unlocks the full party calendar, event registration, and the Connections directory. Members are vetted; new applications are reviewed within 72 hours.